Wednesday, October 25, 2006


This is by far, the most thought provoking thing I needed to read today. Thank you Mom for sending it. Thank you Yeshua/Jesus, for opening my heart to understanding!

Billy Graham and Oprah

Last year I watched Billy Graham being interviewed by Oprah Winfrey on
television. Oprah told him that in her childhood home, she use to watch him
preach on a little black and white TV while sitting on a linoleum floor.

She went on to the tell viewers that in his lifetime Billy has preached to
twenty-million people around the world, not to mention the countless numbers
who have heard him whenever his crusades are broadcast. When she asked if he
got nervous before facing a crowd, Billy replied humbly, "No, I don't get
nervous before crowds, but I did today before I was going to meet with you."

Oprah's show is broadcast to twenty-million people every day. She is
comfortable with famous stars and celebrities but seemed in awe of Dr. Billy

When the interview ended, she told the audience, "You don't often See this
on my show, but we're going to pray." Then she asked Billy to close in
prayer. The camera panned the studio audience as they bowed their heads and
closed their eyes just like in one of his crusades.

Oprah sang the first line from the song that is his hallmark "Just as I am,
without a plea," misreading the line and singing off'-key, but her voice was
full of emotion and almost cracked.

When Billy stood up after the show, instead of hugging her guest, Oprah's
usual custom, she went over and just nestled against him. Billy wrapped his
arm around her and pulled her under his shoulder. She stood in his fatherly
embrace with a look of sheer contentment..

I once read the book "Nestle, Don't Wrestle" by Corrie Ten Boom. The power
of nestling was evident on the TV screen that day. Billy Graham was not the
least bit condemning, distant, or hesitant to embrace a public personality
who may not fit the evangelistic mold. His grace and courage are sometimes

In an interview with Hugh Downs, on the 20/20 program, the subject turned to
homosexuality. Hugh looked directly at Billy and said, "If you had a
homosexual child, would you love him?" Billy didn't miss a beat. He replied
with sincerity and gentleness, "Why, I would love that one even more."

The title of Billy's autobiography, "Just As I Am," says it all. His life
goes before him speaking as eloquently as that charming southern drawl for
which he is known.

If, when I am eighty years old, my autobiography were to be titled "Just As
I Am," I wonder how I would live now? Do I have the courage to be me? I'll
never be a Billy Graham, the elegant man who draws people to the Lord
through a simple one-point message, but I hope to be a person who is real
and compassionate and who might draw people to nestle within God's embrace.

Do you make it a point to speak to a visitor or person who shows up alone at
church, buy a hamburger for a homeless man, call your mother on Sunday
afternoons, pick daisies with a little girl, or take a fatherless boy to a
baseball game?

Did anyone ever tell you how beautiful you look when you're looking for
what's beautiful in someone else?

Billy complimented Oprah when asked what he was most thankful for; he said,
"Salvation given to us in Jesus Christ" then added, "and the way you have
made people all over this country aware of the power of being grateful."

When asked his secret of love, being married fifty-four years to the same
person, he said, "Ruth and I are happily incompatible."

How unexpected. We would all live more comfortably with everybody around us
if we would find the strength in being grateful and happily incompatible.

Let's take the things that set us apart, that make us different, that cause
us to disagree, and make them an occasion to compliment each other and be
thankful for each other. Let us be big enough to be smaller than our
neighbor, spouse, friends, and strangers.

Every day, may we Nestle, not Wrestle!


Miranda said...

Great post! We seriously need more nestling and less wrestling.
BTW Come check out my post today, I'd be curious to see what you would change if you could of.

Anonymous said...

yo father. thanks for showing me this beautiful reflection from your heart. after an unnerving day. this is very very cool.

Babsbitchin said...

miranda, I'm glad you could appreciate it , as I did. Granting mercy in our judgment, I think is a lesson to be learned. If we try to see others, through God's eyes, it will all fall into place!

Babsbitchin said...

shane, it was just what the Doctor ordered for me too. I've re-read it 6 times.

Anonymous said...

Beautifu, heartwarming message but is this true? I watch Oprah all the time and never saw this.

Babsbitchin said...

Anonymous, I have looked high and low on Oprah's website and can not find any indication that Billy Graham was on her show. This is very disappointing and an example of why we are going to hell in a hand basket as a nation. Very disappointing. This was sent to me via email and I naturally assumed it was true. It is a very moving story. I apologize for the premise of a lie!